I've been with my girlfriend for 6+ years. Sometime in early June 2017, I became fed up with how our sex life was going. I did all the initiating, she might agree have sex or give me oral once every 7-10 days. For me, this was the absolute bare minimum and I frequently found myself sexually frustrated and looking at more porn than was healthy.
So I stopped initiating sex as kind of an experiment to see how long it would take before she initiated it. We haven't had sex since I started this, going on 45+ days now. I knew it would be a while before she did, but this is fucking ridiculous.
Tell me what kind of conclusions are to be drawn from this. Because I'm seriously considering breaking up.
Holy shit that sucks.
have you tried talking about it with her, what's wrong and why she is not initiating sex? Seems like she fell out of love with you, so breaking up seems logical thing to do
>>18534526
1. Talk to her.
2. a) If she understands and is willing to do some efforts, problem solved.
2. b) She's evasive or tells you fuck off -> break up.
Et voilĂ , anon. :)