There's gonna be a new cat in my house in few hours What

You can't make cats affectionate. Some are and some aren't. Play with and feed him/her, get them used to being petted and held.

I once heard a TV vet say that you could increase the likelihood of a cat liking you if, when it was young, you picked it up and held it and when it struggled to be let go you kept holding onto it for just a little longer before putting it back on the ground. No idea if that's effective though.

>>18534327
It's 2 months old if it matters. My sister found it on the street or something and she's bringing it here.

>>18534332
You'll be good if you feed them some of your food every now and then and make sure to get them USED to attention, don't ignore them, play with them often. 2 months is way too young for a kitten to be separated from their mother so you might need to get a baby bottle and kitty formula if that's a thing.

>>18534379
Also just google how to take care of a very young kitten, you might need a heads up as far as what kind of things they can eat right now, don't get any catnip toys until they are older, make SURE you go to the vet right away since they have probably eating trash to survive and might have parasites or a really bad vitamin deficiency that needs immediate attention.

>>18534332
Have it checked by a vet first, you don't want to bring diseases to your current cat. You need to properly introduce the new kitten, also.

>>18534327
I always do the exact opposite. I often pick up my cats, but when they struggle I put them on the ground immediately. One month of such treatment and each of them loves sitting in my arms, because they know I'll never hold them against their will. It's a matter of trust.

OP, from my experience it's easier to make cat love you if you don't let him out and if you socialise them when they're young. Play with it, but don't be needy, don't pursue him when he wants to be left alone.