When it comes to long-term relationships is it more about sharing

>>18532602
eh, I'd say that both are important but personalities more so because you can always find new shared interests, and it's also okay to do stuff alone every once in a while
it won't work out if you don't have similar goals though, i.e. she wants a house on the countryside, you want a flat in a big city

>>18532620
aight cool, we share personalities but right now it doesn't seem we line up much interest-wise. but I was thinking that's fine since we'll get to know each other more and more over time

>>18532602
In a long term relationship the "friendship" aspect of it becomes most important. Value systems and having some similar interests are most important. Personalities can be polar opposites so long as they can co-mingle.

>>18532625
Unless by personalities you meant common goals and aspirations like >>18532620. I would consider those value systems though.

>>18532625
>>18532634
like we both are pretty reserved introverts with similar political and relationship ideas, but we have entirely different majors for instance

>>18532637
having different majors and all that is nothing bad at all, it's actually good, imagine you both being the exact same person but one having a penor and the other a vagina, that would be very boring very soon
obviously you also don't want to be polar opposites, but as long as you share some interests that is usually a good sign

>>18532634
yeah, I didn't think goals were a personality, but I though I'd throw that in the mix as well, since it's not unimportant here