Me and my gf are trying to have first time sex. I'm not

J-JAM IT IN!!

Dick hurts too, but she'll eventually get used to it.

You can keep fingering her until she no longer feels pain and only the pleasure now.

Talk with her about actually fucking one day. She needs to make the first move.

Prepare her for your dick by fingering her then lube your dick, hurts her less that way, and ask if you can put it in. If shes horny enough, she'll say yes.

Move slowly at first and then slowly increase speed but dont slam her ass too fast or hard.

Female virgins feel both pain and pleasure in their first time. With time she gets used to pleasure and forgets the pain.

You can put yourself in her place, by imagining taking a LARGE shit. Feels nice when it comes out, but also rips your ass open.

>>18532589
Well, thanks for the tips, bro

>>18532570
Additionally to what >>18532589 says, the first time to make it easier sit on a chair and have her sit on top of you facing you down on your dick. That way she can control the speed and angle it gets inside of her plus in that position your dick and her pussy are better aligned, angle wise. Trust me mate, it works wonders.