How do I last longer? Being having sex/ screwing around with my gf lately but really struggling to last a decent amount of time. She seems to find it funny and says she doesn't care which I believe is genuine but I'm worried if it carries on she will care.
All right bud. Heres the trick. Don't enjoy the sex until the end.
When you fuck her, go into a trance, basically. Think about random shit, "I should rewatch Taxi Driver. It's been a while. What are my top 10 favorite albums of all time? Do I have to do anything tomorrow?" Slow down if things get too close.
In case of emergency pull out and tell her to switch positions. During the switch think of your grandma naked. Then once you put it back in go back to the trance.
Essentially, split sex into a few parts. Part 1 is foreplay and releasing chemicals in her head that make her go insane with pleasure and anticipation. Then there's the trance. This is the bulk of the sex, lasting upwards to 40 minutes. The there's the prize at the end, where you fuck her as hard and fast as you can, going for the gold, exiting the trance and finishing the session.
I've been doing this for years. I basically decide when we should stop having sex. I can go for a quickie in 1 minute or I can last for 4 hours.
Same problem here OP.
Heard kegals help.
>>18530453
1-become a master of prelims. women don't care as much for penetration as we do. It is important, but not as much as for us
2-practice edging
3-switch posistions
4-ask her to help you. she should stop stimulating you, push you back, so on. it's fun.
>>18530453
Just cum and not give a fuck what she wants. Women are replacable. If she isn't happy with you then dump her ass and get a new one. There's plenty of warm holes out there for you, OP.
>>18530481
Nothing against fucking for extended periods of time, but 4 hours? That must get tiring for her.
When you feel the nut rising, clench your teeth together and bare them. It works, saw a youtube video on it and attempted it while jacking off.
>>18531630
4 hours was a long time. She came a lot and said it was the best sex of her life.
It just takes practice. Also, sex isn't the best part for a girl. I recommend you read a book called "She Comes First". It's about cunnilingus primarily, but it's changed my life. Most women say I'm extremely good in bed and after we fuck for the first time they crave it more than I do.
Just learn foreplay. It's what they like. They don't get a whole lot from penetration, it's like 40%. What they like about penetration is usually the manhandling that comes with it (being choked, being pinned down, etc.). The real part they enjoy is neck kisses, sensual touching, fingering, clitoral play and cunnilingus. Sex is the frosting on the cake.