Morning all. So I've been dating this girl for a while and she wanted a break for a while, it's been two weeks now so I've been questioning her in regards of her feelings and what's going on. She said she's undecided yet and said she always can't come to conclusions and needs someone to take matters into hands - so I didnt know this, she seemed not rather strict and straight forward so I always went with common courtesy when asking her out a.i. if she has time, is it possible etc.
I dont have any problems with taking control and calling the shots, I just want to see if anyones been in a similiar position or has any words of wisdom.
I'm planning to call her and tell her, that since Shen want someone to take matters in their own hands, then I'll be ending the pause and will ask her to come to an event on the weekend, book a place overnight and all.
So yeah, rant over, thoughts.
Also inb4 "beta faggot/cuck" etc
yeah, man up, and don't be all suggestive and polite or whatever, assume the sale: we're going to the cinema, let's got for a walk etc, I'll pick you up at 8. Do this and see what happens.
Eventually you'll need to balance it out with some consideration, but not in a faggoty feels kind of way.
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Thats what I was thinking, doing a sort of a sale. Ring her today, tell her the plan and then end it with "Think about it and I'll call you after work"