>Join various dating sites
>zero to no success,
>really starts to hurt my self esteem, associating the number of matches/likes with my little of attractiveness
>can't be arsed to quit it entirely because every time I do get at least a profile or or like I feel slightly better about myself
This is a boarderline addictive habit that is not doing anything for me other then waste my time and damage what little self esteem I have left. What can I do to stop it WITHOUT completely quitting it?
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I had this. First, make yourself only use it once a day at say 10am or whenever you get up. Find a distraction, video games or hanging out with friends. Try talking to random women at bars, even if they're bartenders or at work/school (when their not busy obvsly).
Eventually, you'll stop caring and realise that only a very specific type of guy is good at online dating.