Can't cum and lose my erection during sex with gf.
find her sexually attracted but become sexually bored/uninterested
why? does it mean i don't really like her? am i latently gay?
It's a uncommon issue for guys, especially if it's your first time. Usually goes away when you get more comfortable with her. Alternatively if that isn't the issue stop masterbating with porn and start working out.
>>18528057
how long have you been dating / how many itmes have you had sex? the more you have sex with someone the less excited you are about them.
on the flip side if its your first times trying to have sex with her, or esspecially if its your first time trying to have sex in general, its awkward, you're stressed, and you dont know what to do.
do you watch a lot of porn? porn conditions our brain to think we are having sex wtih a different woman every time, and as a result becomes more bored by the idea of sex with the same woman. you will likely get bored regardless especially as women age, but its pretty much proven science that if you only had sex with your wife you would be interested in sex with her for a much longer time. also it just takes your load out of you so if you stop watching porn and wait til you're horny you're bound to be horny for her.
maybe you are latently gay, go look at gay porn or see if you get erect by just touching a guy around the hip