Hey /adv/. It's been a while since I last came on here,

You are basically describing my situation minus some minor differences. She wasn't cheating on me, but she ended up leaving me for someone else. Now hopefully for you this is just a tough stretch and it will pass, but you are right to be wary.

>>18527249
>he seems to go to parking lots, seemingly randomly.

Honey, he's just getting men on Craigslist to suck his dick. There is literally nothing wrong with getting a brojob when your woman isn't available. And it sounds like you aren't there.

>>18527249
It doesn't really matter. You don't trust him anymore (possibly with good reason, a lot of the things you describe are considered red flags), so it's finished anyway if you ask me.

If you talk to him about it, don't say "I think you're cheating on me because X Y and Z", but more like "I feel like you don't trust me as much as you used to anymore, and as a result of that I don't trust you as much as I used to anymore as well."

>I really love him, and I don't want to lose him.
IF he's cheating and you stay with him anyway, you are truly doomed.

>>18527264
>She wasn't cheating on me, but she ended up leaving me for someone else.
Do you honestly believe this?

I think she was just sparing your feelings, bro

>>18527249
Cheating on you or looking at weird porn/etc

I'm scared of what people can find on my history and phone. What if they see my personal memes?

>>18527288
Eh. Whether she was cheating or monkey-branching doesn't matter anymore. End result is that she's currently bouncing on someone else's dick.

>>18527268
>Woman

Oops. Yeah, not a woman, but I really don't think he's that kinda guy. It's possible, but I'd be more convinced if it was a friend.

>>18527275
But I don't have any reason NOT to trust him in his mind. I can't exactly say "I was watching you, and I know where you were", in any form. He might not be being 100% truthful with me, but I don't exactly have evidence.

I just want him to explain it. I will believe it, if he has proof or something, but I can't seem to put the words together for that without seeming like a total asshat.

>>18527249
maybe bring up the lack of affection and the times hes bailed on you and the lack of attention youve received and that you understand hes busy and he works but its different from before and it feels like he doesnt love you any more.

>>18527432
>But I don't have any reason NOT to trust him in his mind.
Sudden radical changes in behavior (like being overly protective of his phone) are a perfectly good reason to be alarmed.

>>18527468
I have. He just brings up how much he works, and that I should be sympathetic to him. He has to support himself, so I understand, but even when I try to show affection in down time, I'm often rejected.

>>18527472
He would just say that he doesn't look at my phone, and why should I look at his. I just feel like there's really no way to bring it up.