Hey adv.
I am a relatively fit, tall-manlet at 178cm. Im not fully autistic since I have plenty (40+) of true friends most of whom arent aspie. I read and I work full time.
For all this I cannot find a girl. Heck im not even matching with fat women on tinder anymore.
I am not giving up, not suicidal. Ill still lift, read and work. But this is really beginning to impact my self esteem and distract me at work. What should I do? If I die incel I die incel. But I wish it didn't look that way
All about the face.
You aren't that short. I'm 170cm tall and I've had a girlfriend for 6 years, if that helps.
>>18525872
Tinder is 100% looks, so if you care about it then get some better pictures that capture you from better angles and photoshop them or whatever to make yourself as attractive as you can.
Tinder's not the best option for meeting people, though, mainly because it's all online and it has nothing to do with the way real-life interaction goes, which in the end is all you care about.
So my advice is to learn to not have your self-esteem depend on your # of tinder matches and approach girls in real life till you're good at girls.
There is nothing that is separating you from the other men in the same category that you are in. So you just become one of the invisible men.
Remember this, women are more visual than men, and there are specific things they want and they feel they need. The system is stacked against you and to get a small slice you have to work harder than those you are on the same tier as, with little to no sweeter taste.
Ask yourself if its really worth it and find something that gives you peace of mind, forget about that rat race because in this life you were born unlucky.