I'm 25 and just graduated with a worthless degree after being NEET for years. I need to move and get away from where I am now, and here are my options:
Move to where my dad is and pursue a dead-end job with my shit degree. I was forced away from him growing up because of my cunt of a single mother, but he's always tried to be a part of my life, regardless. I respect and love him, and want to be near him because he's getting older. I want a relationship I never had with him growing up.
Or I can move to where to my maternal uncle and grandfather live in a different state. Both of them have a great network of connections, and are established businessmen. My uncle even said to me last I saw him, "Give me your resume, and you'll get a good job. I think they call that nepotism, haha." I'm a fuck up, but still the "favorite" on that side of the family because my siblings and cousins are assholes.
What do?
>>18525869
Take your uncle's offer while staying in touch with your father. You don't need to move to the same town as him to show him you care. Call him. Video chat him. Visit him when you're free.