gf and I broke up.
it wasn't working anymore.
I have a job and shes going back to school to get further in debt and get a job at the end. By time shes don't school she'll be 29. Around that time I'm sure she'll freak out and want kids.
she has a life of school debt. if shes dealing with kids. she won't be making money. shes just over all a bit immature with money and living in reality.
I got a promotion at work and things are looking up for me. more time to focus on certain things. meeting new people / I think I'll spend a year of just dating around and nothing serious. I want kids one day
but fuck there is still a feeling of lose. 4 years of a best friend and gf.
sorry, anon. thankfully, it looks like the rest of ur life is going really well. maybe this will be a good thing in the long haul.
Just keep on pushing along, my dude. Just gotta keep on living and try to put it behind you. It will take time, but eventually you will look back on it and probably laugh. You are the most important person in your life, don't forget that.
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>>18525635
thanks my dudes. its just tough. all I want is her back. but its past that point. I've emailed her and explain how I feel and where I'm at .
but I know its past a certain of no return.
interesting how you want a future with someone. but that person's actions don't line up with what she says.
in the end I learnt. a future with someone is something you both create together. The meat and potatoes of a relationship is working for it and making decisions together / go after goals together. sure its not always perfect.
but in the end you have to think what's right for a future / future children.
ugghh. stomach pains now and anxiety. The worst is waking up and feeling this all over again.
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Good luck Anon.