Hey /adv/, As of recently I got into a friends with benefits

>>18524049
stay in contact maybe ask her out in a week? she may need alittle bit of time but she seems to be into you.

>>18524067
What about the sexual part, do you think there would still be any room for that or are my chances completely gone? Also I appreciate you reading through that novel of text just to help me out.

>>18524049
she doesn't want a relationship and still smarting from the end of one and she likely still has feelings for that guy. She also knows you want more and she needs to cool things off because she only wants sex and entertainment occasionally not a full time guy.

>>18524049
She's using you as side-dick to make Chad jealous. She's going to go back to him, and made sure that she was seen with "a new boy" at a party with her friends. (Seriously, why the hell did you agree to something like that?) Now that she's been "seen" her friends relayed to her that Chad still owns that pussy and is going to be banging her again soon, if he isn't already.

Don't have "feeling" for fuck-buddies. It screws things up every single time. She probably smelled it on you and got scared off.

Ignore her for a week unless she makes first contact. Do not get "date-y" with her, after that week of silence text her to come over to drink and fuck.

>>18524076
I would've thought the same thing but the only problem with that is that we didn't tell anyone about what was going on between us. Nobody at the party knew about anything that we were doing.

>>18524074
Well it's confusing because she's the one who suggested to have sex on Monday and she also initially told me that later down the line she would maybe want a relationship if we were to get into a friends with benefits thing.

i'm in the same exact dilemma. hopefully someone gives some good advice.

Is it me or is everyone on the same FWB boat? In that case all aboard! XD

>>18524128
It comes with it's own benefits and complications

I'd say wait a week or so and then test the waters. If she seems interested in something like that again then go for it but if she acts cold then don't bother.

Is there any other advice I can get? I have no idea why but I'm really hurt that she backed out so quickly and that she even wanted a relationship but we never took it anywhere.

>>18524199
Yeah, stop it. She doesn't want a relationship so get it through your thick skull.

>>18524049
> she even sent me nudes yesterday.
How does this happen? This has never happened to me, and I've dated plenty of women. None of them ever took pictures of herself nude to my knowledge.

>>18524227
Well to be fair she was flirting and saying what she wanted me to do to her too so that's why I'm confused at the sudden change of thought.

>>18524212
Even though she told him she did and the day before she was flirting with him

I have the same fucking problem as OP. Go figure

>>18524049
Why the fuck did yall go to a date afterwords? Wasting money there bro. It is all bout the pussy and she gave it to ya. Don't need to be wasting ur time or money with a whore. Fuck and forget. I've had that shit happen to me cept it was the women I dicked getting feelings for me.

>>18524394
this man speaks the truth

>>18524534
She payed for her end. She's not my girlfriend