Girlfriend wants to go to a Fetish Party with two of her girl

So go with her. Say you wouldn't mind her going with you to a strip club.

She said she would rather go by herself with her friends because if i went with her she would be too focused on talking to me the whole time or something along those lines.

Is this worth worrying about?

>>18522205
That seems a bit suspicious to me. It's a fucking orgy, i'm pretty sure there's going to be other things to look at and talk about then just you two.

>>18522213
She is very self concious about herself so I dont think she's going to have sex with a stranger and I'm sure her friends wouldn't let her just makes me uncomfortable. She said it's mainly socialising and there are rooms for people to play from what she's been told by her friends.

>>18522205
say, "nah im going"

>>18522223
Damn nice digits

You know her better than me, if she told you she probably isn't planning to cheat. Still I think it's more than normal to be uncomfortable about it.

>>18522199
Go with her, it isn't that difficult.

>>18522238
as ive said she'd prefer if i didn't come

>>18522232
she also mentioned that she wanted to do it to give her some confidence i think a lot of those parties have many diffierent body shapes so maybe some sort of confidence booster. but figured if she told me she's going or wanted to she's not gonna cheat. More uncomfrotable about the whole nature of it all. but i don't see why she would tell me if she was interested in sleeping with someone else.

>>18522240
I'd personally wouldn't want my girlfriend to do it
there's enough other, non-sexual opportunities to socialise and become more confident
also, we have the saying "opportunity makes thieves", the same goes for most things that people couldn't ever see themselves doing
why risk her cheating, even of she doesn't want to now?
and for the >Said she likened it to me going to a strip club and wouldn't care if i did go to a strip club.
have you ever been to one or wanted to go to one since you've been with her?
if the answer is no, then that's a stupid "offer"
like someone taking my pc and saying "here, I don't mind you taking these rocks in exchange for it"

You're going as well mate. Don't take any excuses, you're telling not asking. Some weird shit definitely going to be happening there.

>>18522199
>she likened it to me going to a strip club and wouldn't care if i did go to a strip club.
There's your golden ticket to the orgy. It's your duty to accompany her, otherwise you're going to get cucked.

>>18522239
>as ive said she'd prefer if i didn't come
And you would prefer it if she didn't go. Relationships are built on compromise.

>>18522199
>Said she likened it to me going to a strip club and wouldn't care if i did go to a strip club.
Not the same thing at all. A fetish party is dedicated to sexuality and the fact that there are "play rooms" just drives that point home. Strip clubs don't have dedicated fuck rooms, t's all look but don't touch. This fetish party is "look but by all means touch".

Go with her or kiss your relationship and trust goodbye.

>>18522755
This too.

>>18522240
>i don't see why she would tell me if she was interested in sleeping with someone else.

You're one dumb naive fuck. Telling you where she's going and what it is just helps take away the surprise of where shes going. She'll 100% guaranteed fuck around at this thing.

>she wanted to do it to give her some confidence
Correct. It's a fetish party, a place where people are going in looking for sex and guys will absolutely come onto her and want to fuck.

>i think a lot of those parties have many diffierent body shapes so maybe some sort of confidence booster
Wrong. She's there for that attention and to get fucked so she feels like she's attractive and wanted. It's not about seeing women with other body shapes, it's about guys there wanting to fuck her regardless of what her body shape is like since it's literally just a sex party.

>>18522199
If my gf were to pull that, I would say, "Absolutely not." She could ask why, but if she tried to argue it at all, the relationship would be over. She obviously wants to go to a sex party WITHOUT YOU for a reason.

Instant dump.

Op, you're a fucking idiot if you stay with this girl, regardless of if she goes or not. I shouldn't have to explain this. Any bad shit that happens from this exact moment on is your fault, as you have brought it on yourself by staying with this problem child. Think back to this thread when you're missing sleep and wondering if she's cheating on you.

>>18522199
>Girlfriend wants to go to a Fetish Party
>without you
lol
>reassured me that nothing is gonna happen
LOL
salvage what you can of your dignity and get out of there

>>18522785
No. Any dancer in stip club shall agree to go to the motel with you, if the price is right. They just don't do it in the club. And if it's cheap club - it may be not the motel, but just your car.

>>18522199
she might think that she can control her urges around a bunch of naked and attractive people having sex but that is just not human nature. Many men go to strip clubs for bachelor parties and get tempted to get more than a lapdance when they never thought they would cheat in the first place. This can happen with women too.

The best thing to do to avoid cheating is to never put yourself in a situation where it would be probable.

She may be the most loyal person you know but animalistic desire trumps rational thought 9/10 times.

Good people DO cheat and that's why relationships have boundaries. never forget this.

>>18522199
Kys for having an IQ of 70.

>>18522199
She wants to fuck other men you pussy ass nigger idiot moron. Ask her to bring a take-away Jamal home to fuck you in the ass, as well.

>>18522849
Well duh, but I mean the strip club doesn't have a room for fucking in unlike this fetish party place does it?

I honestly don't know how I could ever be turned on by my gf again if she ever did that to me. That is such a big mental turn off.

>>18522199
The fact that she even suggested it AND doesn't want you to come with her. I would break up on the spot, and I really really really love my gf.

absolutely fucking not.

>>18523115
honestly, I'd be right there with this guy. her not wanting you to go says a lot for intent. she can "study" it with you there.

that said, why the fuck would either of you want to go to that type of event? so gross.