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i've been going out with this girl i am super into for some

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i've been going out with this girl i am super into for some time now, and the feelings were mutual... spending great time together. we never took it further than kissing, but we really do understand each other and i somehow feel in love. she has to move away to another country in two weeks and she asks to stop our relationship and she (and i) really want to stay friends.

how do i let go and stay friends, but make myself break this relationship in my head? we already decided to quit, but i'm still holding my feelings, and even not with her, i think to myself that i will always be looking for her even with other women i end up meeting. what do i do with this /adv/?

it's weird
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bump

help please
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>>18521101

You'll keep having feelings for her for some time. The only thing you can do is be patient.
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>>18521288

saying the feelings will fade away if i don't see her in person? valid point, though what happens when/if i see her again after some time?

i'm also scared i'll tend to look for her traits in other women in find in the meantime...
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>>18521324

>what happens when/if i see her again after some time?
That will depend on what happens in both your lives between now and then. Also, worrying about a hypothetical situation at some indefinite point in the future won't do you any good.

>scared i'll tend to look for her traits in other women...

So what? If they're good traits, it's not a problem. And you're attracted to what you're attracted to, the only reason to fight it is if it's bad for you.
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>>18521368

thank you. sounds a lot like what i wanted/needed to hear.
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