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Hi guys, I need advice
>started chatting to this guy, we got along pretty well and talked for hours at the beginning
>we went out a couple of times together
>everything seems ok
>one day he tells me that he is coming out of a relationship of 5 years and that all of this feels new
>since that day I feel like he is colder and speaks to me less and less
>I asked him what was wrong
>he told me he is into me but he is not sure about his feelings, blabla
>"oh, okay".
>now i'm the one that almost always starts the conversations and asks him to go out
Is he playing with me? He is not interested anymore? I like him a lot but i don't know what to do, when we go out he's so warm and cute with me, but when we aren't together he is super distant.
Should i keep trying?
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he's got a bad case of the feels. he wants to take it slow. you can try harder if you want to speed things up, but you might damage your future relationship.
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>>18514448
But if i keep things slow he maybe will lose interest
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That's generally what happens when people get out of a serious relationship m8
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>>18514461
So maybe he's still getting over his ex right?
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>>18514491
Yes
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>>18514491
Yeah, but it doesn't mean a relationship with you is out of the window. Just take it nice and slow, he's probably torn. Be there for him if you wanna, take it slow, but don't become a rebound and get hurt in the process.
These things take time.
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It feels bad to always take the initative, that's why I started overthinking
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>>18514497
Thank you so much
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i knew a guy like that, if he doesnt know what he feels now he probably wont know it in the future
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