>girl I like. >trying to be a casual friend with her first

>>18510259
Embrace your inner Wilfred anon.

>>18510259

Only help people who ask for help. Only try to be friends with people who want you as a friend.

Your time is a gift. If someone doesnt value and rejects it - fuck them - there is always someone else who will value it.

>>18510313
I would man, I probably really should cut her off. I don't owe her a damn thing. But after just coming out of a bout of depression (which, conveniently, running into her helped a bit to get me out of it) and then seeing her suddenly shift gears and look like she's started going down where I ended up...fuck man I can't help but feel for her. It ain't even about trying to date her anymore, I just want to make sure she's ok.

>>18510259

So some chick with a bf gave you the time of day and you decided to willingly become her beta orbiter? And that ended and you are asking for advice on how to become her beta orbiter again?

What happened was that her boyfriend found out you existed (she probably mentioned you infront of him in passing) and he blew up your spot. He isnt dumb and knows exactly what your endgame is, even if you were never going to achieve it to begin with, and told her. She connected the dots and decided she values her boyfriend and respects him so she cut you off, because she doesnt value nor respect you.

She did you a favor, live and learn. Stop being a nice guy, nice guys are simply dudes who are too cowardly to take risks and go outright for what they desire and instead resort to underhanded shit and being sneaky conniving cunts - which is exactly what you were doing by your own admission. Grow some balls and deal, or sit in the shadows and wonder why no one treats you like a man or respects you.

>>18510382
What does her cutting off our other friends and family have to do with that though Anon?

>didn't even have the chance I tell her I liked her.

I'm always aware of this being my problem yet I still never tell anyone till its too late. That being said if she cut you off and never said why then fuck her. If anyone cuts you out of their life put of the blue for no actual reason then there's no point. We all try to find something in nothing and that's just our curse.

>Short of just showing up at her job and trying to ask her face to face, which I want to avoid because I don't know what state of mind she's in and if it turns up becoming a scene

Don't bother people at their workplace, that's a dick move, especially if you're just a friend. If she doesn't wanna talk to you then fuck her

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>>18510259
Game over.
Continue
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