Hey /adv/, I've been on a relationship with a chinese girl

>>18509609
Learning the language to a reasonable degree will take you more than a year (even though you have the advantage of being able to practice with a native speaker). If all you want to do is talk with them directly, it's probably not worth it.

Besides that, I don't know what else to say. Godspeed, anon.

>>18509609
Why didn't you just hide the relationship until the college was paid off? Are you in clown college or something?

>>18509617
Should I get an interpreter then?
>>18509622
It was hidden, apparently someone saw us and told the folks and she isn't a very good liar. Also I'm done with school, she isn't.

>>18509647
One thing you could do is have a deep introspection of where you see yourself with your gf. If after deep thought and looking to what you truly want in life, you might consider breaking up with her. I only tell you this OP because there is no good solution in this scenario

>>18509609
yeah, she's fucked OP. Traditional asian girls are great but only if you are accepted by the family as you now find. It took me 3 years and they finally realized I was solid and would never do anything that would embarrass their daughter or the family. It helped that I did a deep dive into her culture and learned at least the pleasantries of the language and she told them soon as she felt we were serious and she was in love.

You guys will have to separate so she can finish school but first you need to sit down with her parents, ask their forgiveness and show them and your gf respect. Then wait and see.