There's this individual that I have a crush on, and they know it. The feelings used to be requited, but she said that she stopped loving me (I think). We haven't seen each other in over 4 months, and only had a couple of text conversations (and I got a 9-page letter to them via unconventional means several months ago). The last thing I texted them was something along the lines of "Do you have any new fetishes?" and they didn't respond It was rather awkward. (We've talked about sexual stuff A LOT before, but I guess things are different now?)
I deleted them awhile ago on social media, and I think this offended them. Should I try to add them again to find out more about their life, and hope that they'll contact me? Or would it make things worse since they probably know that they're my oneitis?
Any other advice is welcome as well.
IMO give up the ship OP
I've been there, painfully so for a long time. It's not worth it. Just give her up, and get on to finding somebody new.
>>18505252
So should I not try to add them?
>>18505279
If anything let them add you, or maybe wait for a long time and reach out to them in a friendly way, don't have your last message be asking about fucking fetishes if she doesn't feel that way about you anymore anyway.
>>18505299
They still have me on Snapchat, but I don't have them anymore. We're not friend on Facebook or following each other on Instagram though.
>>18505219
>gender neutral terms.
Ya slipped up. We know its a chick.
>should I...anything
No. Its done. Move on. This is the problem literally every lonefag, plus age virgin, bad luck in love type has. You must forget and move on.
Seriously, i never broke this paragraph out but...been coming here over 11 years. Same problems. Same advice from everyone. Same defiance. Same results when advice isnt followed.
Move on. Shes gone. Thats all.
>>18505389
>>>18505389
>Ya slipped up.
Ah now I see. Lol. She's a mostly closeted trans woman so she's a man in daily life. I'm a cis female who does have bad luck but lost my virginity at 15 if that counts for anything.
>>18505389
>>18505448
Though, I was a trans guy for much of the time she knew me. She may not even know that I'm cis again now.
>>18505448
>>18505460
Disgusting.
>>18505672
Ummm...? Why?