I need guiding words, /adv/. There's a question in here

>>18502648
There are two types of people on this planet:
Manly men who doesnt give a fuck what others think or do and bitches.

So far you sound like a bitch. Decide for yourself what you want from your life, make a list, prioritize it, make a plan and START DOING IT FAGGOT!

>insane introvert is not going outside for a few hours

fuck off normie
try staying inside for 2 years
I bet you went outside to get groceries and shit

What fetishes?

>>18502707
Considering how shittily organized I am and how distracted I get, honestly just making a list sounds like a good first step to something at least. Thanks yo.

>>18502729
Social anxiety isn't introversion, but /r9k/ may be a better place to jerk off about how bad your life is

>>18502731
Nothing so horrible by 4chan standards, I guess, but I've got a sub streak going. She knows bits about it, but I've never gone into full detail. (I've wanted to sometimes, but there's this repressive mental block I just can't get past.) It includes a ton of RP fantasies like teacher/student stuff, pet play, age play, etc. that I don't know how to bring up because she didn't seem too fond of RPing in bed the one time it came up. Also a lot of things like denied/forced orgasms, pegging, peeing, and crossdressing turn me on; I'd love for her to tie me up and basically do whatever the fuck she wants with me, save for like scat. But often when we experiment with stuff, she gets dejected if it's not working out and it makes it awkward. The vanilla is great, but it's a little rough with all this stuff I don't know how to tackle.

The thing that makes me really reluctant is that she's my first IRL girlfriend and the girls I had some sort of sexual connection to online were also weebs, so it was pretty easy to talk about hentai and shit with them- my gf isn't, so I just don't know if she'd ever really get the mindset I've unfortunately grown up in. It's a gap I don't know how to bridge, partially out of inexperience and partially about having no idea how she'll see it if I whip out that one Bridget/Millia doujin in front of her and ask her to fuck my boipussy with a dragon dildo

>>18502648
I have no particularly useful advice, beyond the fact that you really ought to be talking with your GF about all this - she may have a surprising level of insight.
You may as well tell her about the fetishes too.

>>18502648
Save for a trip, take the trip, this will get you a new perspective in life.

Seriously, you are on a spiral of doom, this will turn on boredom and eventually on depression, try to take a trip to another culture (in case you are a weaboo, don't do Japan, do something like France, Spain, Italy, a more westernish place). I wouldn't advice to go with your gf.

>>18502947
I should, I just wish I knew how to approach it... I guess if she disapproves then that's that, but still.

Has anyone ever gone through this here...? Any insight?

>>18502990
I'm not a fan of places I can't speak the language, but maybe that's not a bad idea. Thanks anon.

Bumping for any other thoughts.