Guys, I need fucking help. When I was 11 or 12 I heard about

>>18500213
The first time you have sex, you won't cum. The tension will be too much, you'll be thinking about other things.

T. A guy who lost his virginity about a week ago

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>>18500213
Its going to be hell

>>18500225
I hope its like that. But how do I cure
>>18500227
pls dont say that

>>18500213
Literally, my story.
>>1st. How do I quit my addiction
2nd. How do I cure my prejack probelm.

1. I never did
2. Practice. After I got a gf, it was an issue so I had to just practice getting close to cumming, stopping, going again, stopping. Eventually you get better at controlling it.

>>18500234
The thing is dude, you are biologicaly capable of fixing it, its just the manifestation (habits) of you that is the problem. If the addiction simply came for no reason it will be easier to fix compared to if its ingraned into a velvet of shit.

I recomend looking at the mirror.

luckily you're not that old.. you'll be fine. two important things.
1. nobody is expecting you to be a porn star with amazing stamina in bed. When you're with the right one, your sexual performance wont matter. It's the feelings and experiences you both share that lead to that point. Thats what makes a girl like you and that's why she's with you, not the prospect of an amazingly fulfilled sex life, especially right from the get go, it takes time to learn what each person likes.
2. Porn is a bad habit and you should consider severely reducing its use, although at your age I understand thats very hard. It can damage the reward centre in the brain, causing laziness, relationship problems, anxiety etc. You can get addicted to it like a drug and it can affect your life in the same way a drug can

>>18500239
Should I do it your way or is there another way anon???

>>18500248
>>18500249
Ok, so whats the best thing I can do? some tips?

>>18500253
That's what I did. Now if i were you, I would practice that technique now instead of waiting till you have a gf. My gf was super cool with it and worked with me to help me get passed it. If I had been smarter, I would have done this earlier instead of just cumming all the time.
Another trick I used to do is to masturbate ahead of our date or night out if I planned for sex. Then it made me last longer the second time. The trick is to get the timing right. Too far ahead does no good.

>>18500213
dude i've been doing it every day since 13 and now im 25. you're fine. do it too hard though and you wont be able to cum when you have sex. basically, cut the porn out a little bit and relax. it's natural. just don't go to /d/ or anything.

>>18500213
I masturbated for longer than you before losing my virginity. I was also a one-minute man in the sack for years. One day, that changed: I think it was because I was finally fucking someone I didn't idealize (I didn't even like her, but pussy was pussy). Now I literally go for hours; some nights I don't even cum at all but just pleasure the gf until she's sated or exhausted. I still masturbate like crazy (helps with the blue balls).

For me, it wasn't the physical masturbation that affected my stamina but whether I was idealizing my gf. Being praecox or not is all in your head, young Jedi.

>>18500259
really, most girls dont come from penetrative sex alone. You can just use your fingers until she's finished, it will likely take a while, try making it hotter by sucking on nipples, kissing neck etc, which she'll love you for. Anything you do after that wont matter

Op here
thanks for all this. I will "try" and change this habit i will also try tricks to help me. thank yall so much anons...

>>18500213
stop waxing your willy and start looking for intimacy with a fellow human being

>>18500213
>Guys, I need fucking help. When I was 11 or 12 I heard about masturbating and haven't stopped since. Ive been doing it daily until now. I recently turned 18, I cam cum in seconds.I have a serious problem.
So you are literally every guy ever