I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend.

>>18497827
Im also in a LDR and before we met in person we'd normally have phone sex or mess around over FaceTime. But now that we've met in person we both would much rather save our sexual frustrations for when we meet up. We don't meet up very often either, but if you really do love this girl you're going to have to deal with irl sex only.


If you can't handle that break this off now so you can fuck a girl thats closer to you

You have to decide for yourself whether the relationship is overall worth it to you, not because of some perceived token of masculinity that might get taken away if you run with this.

Having said that if she feels this strongly it is not worth trying to change her mind to begin with. She will feel cheap/gross/at risk while doing it and resent you for that. There are enough risks associated with these kind of things if your heart is really in it.

>>18497827
Jesus Christ. Is there anything more beta than a LDR. I would feel real fucking sorry for myself if they only pussy I'm getting is 300 miles away telling me what her pussy is like over the phone. You might as well just jerk to porn.

>>18497911
This, online/LDRs are for betas

>>18497911
>>18497916
It's not like people choose them, dudes. People get into LDRs when they fall in love and then for whatever reason (school, career shit, family illness, whatever) one of them has to move away from the other for a while.

If you can't see how that could happen then you've never been in a relationship. Have you ever been in a relationship?

>>18497948
I have and I know how fucking stupid they are. The last LDR I had was in the fucking MySpace era. So yeah it's beta as fuck in my eyes. To a dipshit kid or teen I can understand but if you're 20+ and doing this weak shit then I assume you have some sort of self esteem or societal issue. What man would rather whine and beg that he wants to see a gf that lives 30 hours away than finding a real flesh and blood chick that's right next to him.

>>18497955
>stop doing what I don't like

>>18497955
Um maybe I love HER not just random girls in general? I don't want "a real flesh and blood chick that's right next to [me]" unless it's my gf.

>>18497827
I'm in an LDR and my gf can't into Skype. She managed to get it working only once. Since then, I've had to call her cell phone.
Whenever we're together, the sex is amazing and frequent. She refuses to move to the US, though, and I have a job (she doesn't) which keeps me here.
You're not a pathetic cuck, and your girlfriend is perfectly within her rights to want to be sexual only in person. Just make sure that you two have a long-term plan that gels: know whether you are moving to her locale or she to yours, and when that's going to happen. Skype is the least of your problems, dude.