Is there anyone in your life that you are just nice to because

>>18497801

I've had that to some degree, but instead of pity, I like to think about it as finding that everyone has an interesting side to them. Like, I have this one friend - he's really shy, and introverted, and has a hard time relating to a lot of people in a "party" environment. I think he's probably legitimately got Asperger's. Since we had known each other for so long, I sometimes felt "pity" for him and took him out to things, thinking he needed to be social like me. But now I've seen awesome things in him, like how great of an artist he is, his curiosity in science, the awesome way his mind works when it comes to coding and tech.

So I dunno anon, maybe it's time to accept that people see something awesome in you, even if you don't see it in yourself.

>>18497801
what's the pic from?

No, I have very little chill so there's no one I'm nice to out of pity. Either I'm nice to you or I'm not.

I befriend people like that at work so i look like i have a big ol' soft heart. I pity them for my benefit. I'll be the first to admit it.

>>18497801
Do people smile at you the way they smile at a little kid?

I'm never nice out of pity, but I am nice in general and the less social kid might be more available to talk to.

Trawling my mind for examples, my best guess is that you have got the "there's nothing wrong with you treatment". In other words everyone else has some little conflict thingy that makes them a bitch/jerk but you're just fine. It doesn't mean they want to fuck you (but doesn't mean you're ugly either). It wouldn't matter to someone 20+ because everyone treats each other like adults then.

>>18497801
Im florida, public supermarket is renowned for hiring downies, and let me tell you they are slow but have fantastic work ethic and friendliness like few regular trash people have.