how do i get through a family reunion? we have on coming up and

>>18496517
You can try growing up, anon

I mean: if you don't like the way you live, why don't you try and change it?

>>18496524
i never said that i hate being a neet anon

as for changing my lifestyle
i was enthusiatic about everything back then but when everyone around you especially your close families and relatives tries to bring you down/treats you like a good for nothing piece of shit everytime you'll eventually get tired of trying and just sit back and be the piece of shit they're telling you that you are

>>18496536
It doesn't sound like you enjoy your life. It sounds more like "too afraid to try, so I won't because that's the best way not to fail"

>>18496517
stop caring what they think anon. and stop doing things in spite of them just live your life like you fucking want. why would you care if you only see them once a year they don't fucking matter.

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>>18496541
that actually really made me think
t-thanks anon sama

>>18496542
yeah i think i'm going to just smile at everyone and prepare self deprecating jokes
im more worried about what they're going to think about my mother though for raising a failure like me
meh at least my bro is successful now

>>18496517
"Got some projects I'm working on but don't want to jinx them by talking too soon. See me at the reunion next year and things will be a whole lot different. Meanwhile, tell me about you. . . . ."

>>18496590
HOLY SHIT THANKS ANON

>>18496517
It's because you are a piece of Shit. Even your family knows this in the subconscious

>>18496747
If that's the case what reason would OP have to even go?

>>18496517
Don't go, stay home. If they come to your house go elsewhere. You're 21, they can't force you to do anything.

>>18496553
You're not a failure unless you actually attend this shit, these people are pay pig peasants, born to be milked.

>>18496935
OP here
it's worse if you're asian trust me

>>18496747
i know anon, i'm self aware and i also said that on my OP
and i know my family and relative knows too why else am i alienated and been treated horrible by them all my life which i also stated in OP

>>18496890
>>18496933
it's the death anniversary of my grandfather and my whole clan has agreed to make it an annual family reunion
i grew up with a very traditional and religious family
and if i don't go my grandma would be upset and the rest of them will think that i don't care about gramps blah blah blah
and also i love my gran pappy

>>18497113
>it's the death anniversary of my grandfather and my whole clan has agreed to make it an annual family reunion
>i grew up with a very traditional and religious family
>and if i don't go my grandma would be upset and the rest of them will think that i don't care about gramps blah blah blah
>and also i love my gran pappy

Your gran pappy would understand. If you absolutely have to go, I would suggest you have a meltdown and cry a lot so that they don't want to hurt you. You seem to still value these people for some reason, which seems like wasted effort