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OK guys i need some advice let me just start by saying I'm a 22 year old male premed student. I'd like to think im a pretty honest person but lately i've been going through some shit so hear me out please i really need some advice
I've been with my girl for about 4 years now we fell inlove and all that gay shit i can honestly say i love her. We have an 9 month old son and he is the love of my life. But not everything is going good our sex life is shit. Mostly on her part she has the lowest sex drive i have ever seen we can go weeks sometimes 1 or 2 months without sex. My sex drive is on high mode all the time im guessing is because i'm 22 and not past my prime yet. I've brought it up to her many times but she just tells me its not me its her that she has low libido. shes a great gf and want to marry me and have a cool family but fuck guys i can't take it anymore she wont even let me look at porn she freaks out and tells me it makes her feel insecure about herself. Ill post pic of her body time (not her) but close to her body recently some girls at work have started hitting on me nice thick perfect ass but fuck i always fight the urge to hitt on them back im afraid that if one made a move on me i wont be able to hold back. And i don't think i would be able to live with myself if i did ever cheat. Wtf do I do this is drving me crazy ill provide more in if needed thanks
>Not her in pic
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>>18496058
Anon there's probably more to it than a low sex drive. Maybe y'all need to spice up the bedroom (role playing, toys, that kinda shit) or maybe you're fucking her in a way she doesnt like. What I mean is Women are weird about that shit and if they get even slightly uncomfortable about something whilst fucking then their sex drive goes down the drain. Maybe you're fucking her too hard? Or in bad positions? Also, have you tried getting her drunk and asking her about it? Don't force yourself on her, the alchohol just tends to bring out the truth in people. And if I'm wrong about all this, then see if she'll give you noodles of her to rub out to. You can even make the act of getting nudes fun! But anon, if she even says no to that, then that's a serious red flag and it might be time to cut the chord. Just being honest bro. Was in a similar situation a few years back and we had to call it quits. It sucks, and I know you've got a son to think about. But bro sex is a basic human need. I wanna say it's selfish of her but idk yalls full situation.
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>>18496058
Couples counselling!! This is exactly the sort of thing it's good for. Chances are there's much more than a low libido at work here, and you need a thrid party to help bring it out.
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>>18496523
*too hard can also mean raunchy or domineering. Not all women are into that.
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>>18496058
You need to take her to a couples sex camp. It's like band camp only it's for sex autistics. They are very popular in CA. It's a Pervy nudist camp either. They have board certified psychiatrists and sex therapists. I'm told they have high end sex dolls that they demonstrate on. You should look into it.
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>>18496840
It's NOT a Pervy nudist camp. Typo
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Go into detective mode quietly, make sure she's not cheating
Hate to say it but many women who never want any from their partner are getting aroused other ways
She could be hiding things she's doing or she's bored with the great life you provide, a lot of women want "excitement"
Just be careful and investigate
btw i'm 37 is there any way for me to get into the medical field and make good money even though I never went to college?
Could you please tell me the best jobs/path if there are any considering my age and lack of education
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