>grill agrees to date (via OKCupid)
>have to reschedule
>98 messages and 2 weeks later
>"I usually like to talk a lot before meeting up" and similar replies
Now I just want to stop talking to her on principle.
I dunno, bro. Maybe she isn't interested and just wants to be polite, but you'd think she'd just ghost you instead of dicking you around so long.
I find that too much text chat kinda kills the attraction.
>>18496045
I asked for her number. If she's leading me on then she'll say no and I'm out. If she says yes I'm probably going to get led on for a while anyways but at least I'll have some fucking progress.
She's really shy, literally maximum in "less confident", and she lives with her parents no full time job.
But even with that a man's gotta have some standards shit. I ain't that big a fuck up.
Also great point about text chat.
>>18496035
If you or a girl can't hold up a conversation in text, you're gonna fail like fuck in person. I don't date any girl that can't hold a conversation online, because it means she's a stupid fuck. And if you can't, it means you are too.
But it does sound like she's shitty anyways, so maybe you should establish some better standards for yourself, instead of a girl that lives with her parents.
>>18496101
I live with my parents too. I'm disabled but hit the jackpot in cryptocurrency so I'm going to move out soon.
Idk I've never dated a shy chick before and we've connected on literature.
Pic semi related because having someone be shitty in life like I am helps a lot. I'm not likely to find that sort of thing often if only because they won't advertise it.
It sounds a lot like you're being catfished
If the point of the site is to set up dates and she goes the opposite direction by avoiding it, then yeah, that's plenty suspect.
>>18496061
>she lives with her parents no full time job.
L M A O
why would u even bother u must be such a fucking loser
baka
>>18496035
baka you should be talking to other girls too.
>>18496035
Then stop talking to her. Don't suppress yourself and try to be a "nice" guy. Let fucking loose in all aspects of yourself except for how much you want to fuck her.
>>18496101
>I don't date any girl that can't hold a conversation online, because it means she's a stupid fuck.
It means she's not interested not that she's stupid as fuck. Ghosting is shitty though.
>If you or a girl can't hold up a conversation in text, you're gonna fail like fuck in person.
On some level of this I disagree. Probably because when I think of conversation i'm thinking of shit like talking about the news or their favorite book whereas i'd never go into that but still have a good date.