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Is ghosting really immature?
I just dont feel like calling her or anything. Just got fed up with non stop drama and feeling like dancing on a minefield.
She wasnt bad person per se but constant neediness and demands just drove me off.
So I ghost her. I think of her everyday just dont want to talk with her if all I will get is more drama.
Am I bad or childish?
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>>18494358
Ghosting is more mature than getting involved in drama and arguments. Sometimes there is no other choice.
If you do have another choice though you should be talking with her about it.
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>>18494358
What sort of drama?
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>>18494380
ie our last talk, last week on thuesday:
She was supposed to come over my place after visit at her dad's. 11.00 and she still isnt here so I called her 2 times, no response. I was really worried. Then she calls that the visit at dads turned to a spontaneus party and she will stay longer. I reminded her (and I stress REMINDED as she knew perfectly that I get up really early) that I have work tommorow. She asked then If she should go home then I replied that she should. Then I heard her sobbing on phone and telling me that sucks that I dont care and dont want to see her. I just said that I will talk to her tommorow and Im going to sleep now.
This was our last real talk (called her on saturday and had robotic chat for 1 min - "how are you" "have a good day" something like that)
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