My in laws asked my husband to consign on a mortgage for them when they have horrible credit and no savings. I told him it's a horrible idea and not to do it, but he is going home in a few months to visit by himself and I feel like he may do it. He already told them yes without talking to me or researching it, and has yet to tell them no. Can he consign without my knowledge or signature? They're from Florida.
His mother is really good at guilt tripping him into giving them money. It's pissing me off that they would even ask this.
>>18493688
If your hubby is so easy to manipulate, use manipulation first and simply tell him that giving his and your money to his family will be end of marriage.
>if you dont have kids yet, this is probably good sign to break up and divorce before he gets ass deep into loans hell
Yes, he can sign anything by his own name.
Damn, that's what I figured. He has already been their go to for money since he his the oldest and in the military. I haven't said anything yet because I'm also Hispanic and understand helping family , but my family would never cross this line. I honestly feel like like its super shady because they know they don't have the money or savings to back it up.
Thanks! I was having trouble, but I will bring this ultimatum up. I stressing me out and I can't move forward without a definite no.
Fortunately we don't have kids yet. I love him a lot, but I won't sit by and let them ruin my future.
>>18493688
Mortgage means death pledge. Really makes you think.