TLDR: How to stop infatuation to fuck up my life I'm a

Anybody? :/

>>18493633
>>18493593
>bit chubby
>respectful
>play instrument from overbearing parents
>speaks 3 languages and that's all

sounds like you're bored of yourself and you want someone else that's interesting to take over your life.
it's cool you already have some skills but you aren't supposed to stay static as a person.

>>18493593
>Then after a month i get bored and break up.

Maybe don't break up then? And try seeing the other person as more than just what they can do for you.
What exactly is the advice you're seeking, you're basically humblebragging. You also sound very immature.

Alternatively, try dating someone you wouldn't or who's not "your type". On one hand it would solve the infatuation "problem" and you might discover something about yourself in the process.

>>18493593
Not much advice I can give since I have the same issue and still suffering with it. I've tried giving the person less attention than I already do hoping they'd crave it back, but no luck. Currently just trying to cut my slack, telling myself to deal with it and maybe I'll be able to handle it.

Fucking cunts should be grateful we give them that much attention though.

>>18493593
Well, I have been dating my gf for a month and I'm in the same boat you're on, mostly. I'm obsessed with her and I'm never not talking to her. But lately I've been trying to pull my head out of it.

So when you date a girl, you just want someone to cuddle with? Does cuddling with that person get old or something so you get bored and break up?

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>>18493673
>Alternatively, try dating someone you wouldn't or who's not "your type". On one hand it would solve the infatuation "problem" and you might discover something about yourself in the process.

This, I can't advocate enough the practice of dating others who are different than you are. Maybe even opposites. It makes things way more interesting and its fun trying to figure that person out along the way, also you develope a chemistry. Of course you will run into conflicts but none of them are bad enough to end the relationship. In a healthy one, you're actually supposed to deal with conflicts and put up with one's flaws.

What I'd also suggest is to do more activities with other people and friends and not try to hang out around her too much. Give your relationship some room to breath and spread things out a bit.

>>18493689
>I'm obsessed with her and I'm never not talking to her

Try reading this
https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339

tl;dr It is healthy for you to develop a social life outside of your girlfriend. Preferably with other guys. Although counter-intuitive, it will make you more attractive to her and not less. Girls like to talk and vent a lot so it's tempting to always want to be there for her but they actually don't want a guy that spends 100% of their free time with them.

>>18493713
Thanks for the insight man, I'll give that a look