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So, I'm faced with the realization that I don't enjoy

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So, I'm faced with the realization that I don't enjoy sex.

I'm male, in my mid 20s, circumcised, I've been having sex for about 10 years. I watch porn, but apparently not to the degree that constitutes 'a problem'. I've cut down, anyway.

I've slept with enough women to have forgotten how many women I've slept with, so it's not for lack of variety. The physical aspect of sex just feels completely unremarkable, my cock is about as sensitive as any other part of my body. I hadn't bothered trying to get laid at all this last year, and when I did hook up with someone recently, I didn't even bother to finish.

Thing is, I still feel attraction. Very strongly. I'm quite confident I'm not gay, or asexual, or whatever. I /love/ women. But, this doesn't seem like something that will just 'go away'.

So I guess I'm looking for advice from anyone who might feel similarly. I'm not sure what I should do about companionship. I don't think I am responsible enough for a dog.
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>>18492024

How do I have more sex? I didn't lost my virginity until I was 21. I'm 26 now and have had sex with only 7 girls.
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>>18492024
Are you wearing condoms? Have you tried bareback?
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>>18492035
I lost mine at 18 and have had sex with only 2 girls (like 30 if you count hookers, I do not). I'm about to turn 26, 7 would be a dream. How did you do it?
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>>18492080
I'm 28 and still a virgin, what's your secret?
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>>18492086
At 18 I was really depressed and asked a friend to take me to this party where a well known easy lay was. I dropped my spaghetti all night, then just said "hey, let's go upstairs" and she said "why?" But I didn't answer. She followed and we fucked in her room. I hate parties. Also never saw her again. Got really drunk as was she. It was a relief, but only for a moment, because then you think "ah I'm only good enough for a drunken lay."

So I met a desperate, equally inexperienced fat black chick on craigslist (don't, use a dating app) and we hung out. I figured she just wanted a pump so I was aggressive even though nowadays I struggle to get the courage to go on for a handhold. It helped that she was also awkward and explained things, like "do you want to cuddle?" And shit. Dared her for 5 years, now I want some pussy.
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>>18492024
I'm in the same boat except the other gender.
It sucks, I have to use a vibe to get off at all and my god what guy doesn't want sex...
I feel super guilty and useless every time I just cuddle or hang out.
Would like to think I have some other redeeming qualities but I can't imagine a relationship without sex works.
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That's what you white people get for letting the kikes dictate your life and mutilating your dicks.
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>>18492103
Haha you hate yourselfelf
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>>18492086
>>18492080
>>18492035

I don't know if you meant to, but there is really an underlying message here...
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>>18492103
Hey let's hook up

>>18492110
I didn't let anyone do shit. My mom had it done literally only because it was popular in the 90s.
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literally low test

you have no sex drive = low testosterone

you only seek women for companionship and perhaps worship

go get tested. most guys with low test aren't exactly girly, and many are the big lumberjack types with full beards and such.
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>>18492172
>Hey let's hook up
Youre probably on the other side of the planet.
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>>18492213
How do you treat low test? By working or and lifting?
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>>18492257
Theres testogel
I'm >>18492103 and I'm using it at female approptiate doses and it made made me masturbate a bit more frequently but I'm still useless in bed. Maybe it works better on guys.
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>>18492213
Something I considered, though it took a while, since I am the lumberjack type.

>>18492230
Probably, but hey wouldn't it be nice
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>>18492103
If you're in Miami then we could hook up!
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>>18492024

there are ways to become more sensitive. consider exploring more 'deviant' sexualities like homo. in the end even if you dont enjoy it your body will still need to cum and you wlil still seek after a partner cuz thats how were programmed despite pleasure
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>>18492773
I'm not gonna start banging dudes to see if it'll get my rocks off. But, I appreciate the advice.
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circumcision has permanently made sex less enjoyable for you, but finding a wife tier girl is probably the solution
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i don't like having sex either. never really have. i'm a female, too, which makes going outside my hometown hard, mostly because of men in the city, not minding their own business, thinking i owe them something when i don't owe them shit. i don't talk to people about it because i only get made fun of, or spoken to as if i HAVE to live like they do, being told that it "just doesn't happen"
how i feel and how society feels about my life in general make me wanna die
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>>18493525
Can't be as bad as me though. I don't enjoy pussy unless it's really tight and juicy at the same time. Also, i never try to flirt with girls even if i see that want me, cus i'm never clean, always neglecting my personal hygiene.
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>>18493269
not that dude but there's other stuff as well. honestly it's really rare for me to masturbate to vanilla porn anymore once i found my thing.
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>>18493516
Millions of men in America are circumcised and enjoy sex.
More likely OP needs to look more closely into his practices with gfs. Check >>18492040 : a thick condom can totally inhibit orgasm. Do blowjobs feel good? What practices bring you the most and least pleasure? Does she ever say anything that turns you on more?
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>>18493539
But here's where I'm concerned: I already want to stop watching porn, I feel like trying to interject new fetishes into my sex life will only exacerbate my existing problem.

I do have a thing for blood, though. It's not sexual, but I certainly feel strongly towards it. Not sure how to interject this into sex, since menstrual blood is disgusting.

>>18493546
I almost never wear condoms. I already feel next to nothing, wearing a condom is a guaranteed way to make sure I won't be cumming that night.

I love blowjobs, not just the physical aspect but I like the fact that my pleasure is at the forefront of her attention. Problem is, actually, that my cock is too big to fit into any normal sized mouth. Of all the girls I've hooked up with, I've had two memorable bjs. In fact, the only reason I fucked the girl I referenced in the OP was because she can deepthroat, and even then I still found teeth marks on the base of my dick.
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>>18493546
>Millions of men in America are circumcised and enjoy sex.

Doesn't make what he said any less true.
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