Hey adv I'm in a bit of a pickle right now, it's 2

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Hey adv
I'm in a bit of a pickle right now, it's 2 girls that I'm split between and both are giving me weird signals. I'm not sure if it's because I've never gotten this much attention or something else. On the one hand I have this one girl that I told her I had a crush on her in high school and asked her to rate me, (she said 9/10) then she invites me over to stay at her house for a week and "chill". We're 2 states away and I find this a really weird thing to do to someone that just told you they had a crush on you and since I was pretty mean to her in high school. And then there's this other girl who I just met that says she loves to talk to me and we're very alike, and then I asked her out to dinner and she said not at that specific date, but maybe some other day. And then two days later she invites me to the beach with her and we had a really deep conversation about our lives in the past and realized we're more alike than I thought. So after that day at the beach I waited to text her and she told me she was in a car crash, and the only thing I said to her was "damn that sucks, beat" and feel like it came off really unempathetic. Should I apologize or just ignore it and ask her out again? With the first girl I'm not about to lose a friend because I make a move on her and also I'm not about to drop 300 dollars on a flight just to hang out with a friend. With the other girl I also don't want to lose her as a friend but don't know if she wants to date or not since I'm new to this getting attention from girls without asking for it.