So /adv/, I have a relationship problem. Recently I broke up with my gf for a few reasons I wasn't keen on discussing with her, I wasn't prepared for a commitment above all else and saw things in other girls I talked to that she lacked.
We're now going to meet and talk about this, my goal as it stands is to try and maintain a friendship unless something happens to change my mind. What I'm not sure about in this situation is that if I'm being selfish (I've been friend-zoning her for months) by doing this or if I'm justified.
It's a strange situation and I want to know whether it is healthy or not for me to continue being a friend or to remove myself from her life entirely.
Don't keep in touch with her. It usually leads to DESTRUCTION, MISERY AND HORROR.
>>18491133
Could you elaborate? To give a bit more context I'm only 18, so I still have a lot of options on the table for partners.
>>18491122
Fuck selfish guilt just dump her ass and move on.
Friendship would be awkward.
>>18491143
Don't be a cunt. Your not being honest with her and keeping her on the hook come one dude.