So, I've had a couple of years off from socializing on the scale that I used. Long story short, I was a shut in from age 17 to about 19. Started hanging out with my friends gradually. I got a few hang outs with my female friends, but those have stopped nearly entirely. Meanwhile, my male friends have been by my side the entire time and they still contact me regularly.
Why is this? Note; I didn't fuck any of the female friends, nor did I intend to. There was no sexual advances or anything between us. They just kind of fizzled out, while my male friendships are still going relatively well. Why is this?
I'm male btw, early 20s.
they probably just too busy for u like they got a partner or they just dont like u no more
>>18490686
>They probably too busy
Nope, even if they were my male friends are busy af and they still find the time
>They just dont like u no more
Well yeah, I'm kind of asking why. It's like they were wayward while my male friends stayed regardless of my problems.
>>18490697
it sounds like you've already reached the conclusion you want to reach.
at the end of the day, most male-female relationships aren't that close. Its hard for them to get close (not impossible, just hard) without some sort of sexual tension developing. you and the females were probably never that close and after you decided to disappear from their lives for X amount of time they decided you aren't very important.
the guys had a stronger bond, perhaps just don't make as many guy friends as the girls do, or simply pity you more.
>>18490734
>>18490734
>Without some sort of sexual tension
This is the interesting thing
All the female friends I had, wanted to date me/fuck me at one point. The one we were close to dating but it didn't work out and we remained friends for years after, then it just kind of fell away. The other two didn't move away, one made serious advancements towards me, the other whom she was close with, wanted to fuck me (these two friends were best friends as well).
They both repeatedly told me they love me in that friend way and we were very close. So, no, your hypothesis on them "not being that close" is incorrect.
>>18490677
>fizzled out
Cause the fizzle on some cock the they fizzle on some marriage, then they fizzle on some kids and ruining their lives fizzling.
Men are different but some are like hoes you call em bitchniggers.
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