I feel like everywhere I go, I just mess up other people's lives. I can't hold onto friends. People either passionately care for me to the point that it's unhealthy or they hate me so so much. What am I doing wrong? This feels so crummy.
>>18489778
Stop trying to please everyone. It's ok if some people don't like you
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G4IPEBpoad0
>>18489778
I'm in the same boat, I try to please someone and I displease 3 ppl by doing so. I'm all alone now.... And it hurts. Idk how to get over this....
I feel as if i've been too reckless with the "can't please everyone" mentality. It got me far professionally, but not personally. It also isn't some people, it's most. ): I always wanted to be smart but now I just want to be well liked.
>>18489778
Sounds that you are a dependant type of person. Try to work on becoming more independent in areas of your life.