Advice On Shitty Roommate
>have shitty roommate
>doesn't clean or cook
>smells like shit, no hygiene practice
>plays vidya all day when not at work
>leaves shit all over the place
>quarter asses the chores I have to tell him multiple times to do
>steals my weed and lies to my face about it
>try to casually bring up this shit and he just doesn't do anything about it
>if lucky, he'll pick up some of his shit, shove it under his bed and goes back to vidya
>gets passive aggressive and snyde when I sound the least bit accusational or complainy about the shit he doesn't do
What do?
>inb4 just bitch him out
ye-no. He takes aggressive confrontation about as well as a rock takes anal. I actually want to try and get past this cause the lease ain't up yet
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Just tell him r9k called and wants their ultimate gentleman back
>>18489668
huh, I didn't think anyone on this site was actually autistic. I thought it was just a meme
>>18489656
Anger and caustic aggression usually spikes norepenephrine which will cause him to avoid change.
Effective change comes in supportive communication. Also, it's likely not gonna happen while he's playing vidya - he'll use the "next game's starting" to get out of the conversation
Another odd method is disappointment. If he's truly empathetic, you can try a fatherly disapproval... See if that touches his psyche
If all else fails, jump ship asap
I've had shitty roommates and they suck - just make sure your shit is handled and fuck em if you tried
>>18489676
worth a shot. Thanks m8
>>18489656
>He takes aggressive confrontation about as well as a rock takes anal
this makes zero fucking sense
>>18489701
does a rock take anal anon?
hint: there is only one right answer and it's "not well"
>>18489686
Good luck
>>18489672
What did he mean by this?
>>18489709
i know, i just hate the fact that i laughed at it for so long
you're a funny guy i'd be your roommate
>>18489731
It means I can only get off to autists shitposting on an anonymous brazilian tight rope walking site
>>18489735
I'd fuck your pillows and steal your blue ballpoint pens
>>18489656
find a new place asap. talk to the person you are renting from, see if you can no-fault exit, either for yourself only or for the both of you. Your renter/landlord might kick him out for you, especially if weed ia illegal in your area.