So please tell me guys.
Is this normal?
I don't kiss on the first date or sleep with someone on the first date. But in general I enjoy being affectionate. Like a little touch from someone I know wouldn't mean anything to me.
So if I went on date and if I feel like him I'm okay with being touched, of course subtle touch like on upper back, or my shoulder or close to my neck.
But will it become a problem? Would it make guys mistake me as I'm up for hookup or not?
Is that too much touching?
Yes, I would take it as coming on to me and would assume you want more. I would at least expect to kiss at the end of the dat.
>>18489442
you sound young.
If you are not okay with kissing or sex on the first date, tell them outright. Otherwise, abd even then, some will try depending on who you date.
And why do you equate kissing to sex? They are very different!
>>18489609
I meant holding hands or kissing on the cheek might be okay for me but kissing on the lips led me to things I didn't expect before. After the kiss he always offered to go partying and I realized no matter how much I like them, DO NOT KISS OR FUCK ON THE FIRST DATE
I'm 24. So not that young, not old though.
>>18489630
No idea OP. But as a guy, how do I get a girl to kiss/fuck on the first date?
>tfw dated a girl three times and only ever shook hands
I'm a player.
>>18490197
That is ok. It is worse to go on a date when the girl wants you to do stuff but you chicken out behind your 'good guy' cowardice.
Important questions on a first date:
> do you fuck on first dates
> does your dad own a brewery
> can I feel your tits
> or will you show them to me
If not fuck off