If a girl asked you a question "If you could have anything, what would it be?", how bad is the answer "a girlfriend"
Really bad, because it sounds like anything would do.
Correct answer is "You"
>>18485256
this. but in addition to that, it sounds really fucking shallow. shes not going to think 'OH WOW ANON HAS SUCH A FRUITFUL AND AMAZING LIFE AND ALL HE IS MISSING IS A GF TO MAKE IT COMPLETE' she is going to think 'WOW ANON IS A REAL FUCKING LOSER WHO IS SO DESPERATE FOR A GIRLFRIEND THAT ANYTHING WOULD DO'
at least when you say 'you' it comes with the idea that you are being flirty, that realistically you would take something else, but you are trying to let her know you're into her.
>>18485264
What if she's not into me the least bit, how bad will "you" seem. Or can she laugh it off?
>>18485280
kinda bad. like if you're just having a casual conversation with someone who isnt going to turn to a romantic interest, just say 'an xbox' or something
>>18485283
You're probably right
Might make things too awkward
>>18485245
who gives a shit what she thinks
>>18485245
you said that and now you've come here in hopes that you did the right thing
nope
but its ok anon, learn from your mistakes
>>18485245
In all honesty, it depends on delivery. If you are serious and say girlfriend, then that comes across badly. BUT if you say girlfriend and follow it up with a silly "how you doing?" then that is charming and shit.
Feel me homie? Delivery. Confidence.