/adv/ my gf and I have been having somewhat of a one sided relationship. I don't have any friends anymore except for her. pretty much all I do is vidya, gym, work, and drink by myself. She has a decent amount of friends (which are all fucking retarded) She just randomly shows up at my apartment whenever she feels like it for sex or sleep, I feel like I'm just a safety net for her and I don't know what to do. I literally have no one except for her and I don't want to be by myself, all I'll have is my online friends.
>>18484761
>I don't have any friends
So get some.
Leave her out of the discussion for a moment. With or without her, having no social circle of your own is not a good thing.
Don't go looking for friends. Go looking for things to do that don't involve sitting at your computer. Force yourself to get out of the house and be among people. Get a job. Join a gym. Join a club. Take a class. Do volunteer work. Hang out at the comic book store.
You'll be among others doing the same thing, so chatting about what you're all doing will come naturally. Some of those people will turn into friends, and some will have other friends you'll meet. That's how it happens.
Meanwhile, all this new activity might help you discover that you don't have a girlfriend. You have a horny girl-friend who uses you for an occasional booty call.
Not that there's anything wrong with that.
>>18484761
> drink by myself
Stop this before it makes all your other problems insurmountable.
>>18484786
I go to planet fitness and hardly ever see the same people there. I'll try the comic book store, that's not a bad idea
>>18484808
Not going to do that, my whole family are highly functioning alcoholics and so am I.
>>18484863
Go to a local non-chain gym. Much more likely to be regulars
>>18484761
sounds like she's using you. Wouldn't be suprised if she's just using you as a gas stop while she's out fucking around... Talk with her about it. I recommend breaking up with her or putting her on the back burner and telling her she has to call ahead if she wants to come over anymore. Start looking for new people to hang out with and stop wasting your time with her.