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Should I pay for the trip with my girl?
2017-07-04 12:55:23 Post No. 18484421
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I've been seeing this girl for about 3 months. We are dating casually, although I feel like she will push for serious relationship soon while I'd like to keep it casual, but that's a different story itself. She is really in love with me, I'm her first guy too.
We're going on a short trip together next week (4 days). I didn't want to go for full week because I don't know if I can spend so much time with her although she is cool girl.
When we are going on the dates I'm always paying for everything. That's the way I was brought up, not in a neckbeard gentleman style, but more of like old school "man makes the money and pays and woman is thankful" way. I said that as long as I have money and we go for drinks, I will pay. When I don't have money, we will stop going out.
But this trip is a different story. The total cost of the whole trip is 591$ which is a lot even for me, but I can manage it although I won't be able to go on my planned trip because of it. When I said I will buy air tickets she said she will give money and I said that we will discuss this later. She said that she can't let me pay so much for her. She also has birthday this weekend so this trip could be my present for her. But I should still buy her something else, no? Was thinking about swim wear.
I don't like splitting bills with girl, I think it's beta as fuck. But it's not a small amount of money. What do you guys think? What should I do?
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>>18484421
>I don't like splitting bills with girl, I think it's beta as fuck
So being her atm doormat is alpha as fuck, right? Nevermind the fact that you can't even fucking afford it, you're THAT alpha. At this point it doesn't even matter what you should do, since you're a literal retard. Poor girl must be pretty retarded herself to hang out with your mongoloid ass.
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>>18484465
This, it's the current year. You should respect your partner enough to let her pay for things without your balls shriveling. If you want a relationship where you pay for everything skip straight to a prostitute.
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>>18484465
Don't insult me tough guy, I didn't insult you.
The act of paying for girl isn't beta, it's the dynamic that is important. If you're masculine and attractive guy and you pay for her she will worship you. If you're ugly doormat and pay for everything then it's a different story.
When I run out of the money I will simply break up. Her every next guy will never live up to the expectations I've set.
But for now I still have money.
>>18484476
Guess it's true but I don't like splitting. I should probably fuck hookers then and stop having girlfriends.
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