Other loners out there, how do you do it? How do you handle the

>>18482890
You don't.

>>18482894

I can't make friends, or at the very least it's really difficult to. Not sure I have any other option senpai

>>18482902
There really isn't any other option with the death of the outsider and the commodification of everything i.e. hipsters have taken over all the niche things that is usually reserved for loners/losers.

Do fun shit to entertain myself

>>18482890
Last friday i mixed sleeping pills with alcohol. Then i dont remeber anything, but the next morning i woke up all the beer was gone and the kitchen looked like a Nightclub in copengagen at 4 am, with like, smahed glass everywhere.

Thats how i deal with it. If you really wanted to know.

I preocuoppy myself with a isolated hobby (programming) only focus on that. I spent my whole 2 weeks of vacation in my studio programming .py files.

I left twice. Once to check for mail, and the other to go buy food at a super market.

honestly, for a while; I thought that I hated living where I live because I was not white and I live in a 96% white city, but I was briefly in one of the most diverse cities in my country and I still felt completely alone. utterly alone, surrounded by others who looked like me, but where not like me. Even other technicians I work with don't like me.

It turns out for me there is no "my people" or "my country" it's just me and myself, and my cpu.

it was enlightening knowing I was wrong about the whole race thing, as it turns out;

no matter where I went. There I was.

At least I have this i386.

Drugs, alcohol, and the understanding from experience that society doesn't want me around.


I never found a group that really accepted me openly, and always ended up being on my own or ibored anyways so I started to enjoy it.


Oh and hobbies I can do alone, like video games and art.

>>18482890
You can resort to activities that can be done alone. There are lots of them. If you really believe there's nobody on the planet your age that will spend time with you, go volunteer to help either children or the elderly. Neither groups care and both can provide a sense of purpose for you while you help them.

>>18483113
>Implying it's a good idea for anyone on 4chan (besides the kids who shouldn't even be here) to work with kids or seniors

>>18482928
What the fuck are you on about? Outsiders are still around.

I actually really enjoy being alone. I'm not social, so having time to myself is my favorite thing in the world. I don't have to be tied down or anything, and I have a lot of hobbies to occupy my time with. Right now I just got off work and I'm making dinner, then I'm going to relax and get ready for the holiday tomorrow.

>>18482890
I play games, watch things, look at porn and spend time or just dicking around. What do you want

I'm fucking busy. I got shit to do. I'm not alone because I can't make friends. I'm alone cause I don't have time. I'm trying to find people that work into my schedule right now cause they're into the same shit.

drugs, food and porn

>>18483037
That sounds pretty rad, I'm not much for playing with pills, but I bet your unconscious self was having a blast

>>18483125
this. the dangerous hacker known as 4chan should not be among the general population

>>18482890
I've come to accept it, sort of. Sure, I'll lie in bed for hours mulling over my life and how lonely I am, mostly it's because I'm starting to realize it's all a because of my attitude and worldview. But still, I haven't taken the effort to further my social skills.

The only time, and without exception, I feel like I'm not lonely is when I'm high from weed - it kind of removes that social barrier, allows me to be who I am, which is surprisingly witty and lighthearted. Besides that, I'm usually struggling to look for something to say as a response to what someone said, or to even keep a conversation going.

I've still got a bit to go before I completely give up, but that's just all to say I just live with it. I figure it's just going to be a part of my life at all times, just having that nagging feeling of loneliness. It's not so bad I guess once it's just part of you.

These answers all suck. OP, don't best yourself up because you're alone. Some of the world's greatest artists and thinkers were lonely. Instead of wasting your time getting high or drunk or escaping to video games to pass time, explore your potential. Pick up a musical instrument, and make as much noise as you can until it starts to sound like something. Write a story. Draw characters. There is so much we can do on our own, but so many people ignore that because being social is the norm.

>>18483553
Forgot to mention reading and studying as well. Philosophy, science, math, any topic can be mastered with the internet.

I enjoy it. If being alone makes you feel lonely, try not being alone.

The internet. Video games. Drugs. I like to paint and I'm getting pretty good at it. Hopefully if I go insane and kill myself people will look at my artwork and feel some type of way. Right now I'm playing through dark souls and it's oddly modivational.

>>18483090
>it was enlightening knowing I was wrong about the whole race thing, as it turns out;

Took you long enough. Race doesn't mean shit for loners, you're always at the bottom of the barrel. Race is for OTHER people to draw boundries and battle lines.

I don't mean this in a hippy way.

I've never integrated with "my people" but I was integrated in anything else. Always an outsider.