What is the honest real life fact about being a 27 year old man

>>18479791
People like us have always existed, but people genetically similar to us exist less than others.

>>18479791
The truth is people in our situation are very unlikely to find any type of relationship and those odds decrease with age.
If we could interact socially with others to the level of forming a romantic bond we would have done so already.
Accept a life of solitude.
If you must have sex I suggest a high end escort service for a decreased risk of infections.

>>18479804
Seems to be true.

>>18479845
Yeah, my sex drive has fallen a lot even in the past like 1 or 2 years let alone from the time I was 18. Seriously never thought this could happen to anyone back then if there wasn't something glaringly and outwardly wrong with them.
I don't think I would get a hooker just for the hell of it. Probably rather go full wizard and then see how much I give a shit then, it will probably be less.

>>18479845
Also do you think it bodes in my favor in any way that I've had a girl in bed with me twice who technically wanted to have sex with me at one time? She wasn't really the kind of girl I'm attracted to though, it's just no one had ever done that with me before and I felt like I wanted to.

Im on my way to 22 and enlisting and still havnt had sex or a meaningful relationship. I didnt think it was possible. I always thought it was a meme but lm coming to the realization that its more a meme to get laid a lot than it is to never get laid.

If he fixes what has caused him to be in that situation, then sure, he could redeem himself. That involves taking a good, hard look at yourself and acknowledging your flaws though, which most people who get to be in your situation refuse to do.

>>18479859

idk m8. I'm gonna be 27, and I realized the other day I still masturbate 3 times a day, still am attracted to easy girls, have had sex with multiple girls in the same day.

Could be your diet or emotional state.

>>18479866
As someone who has never been in that situation I couldn't say

For me personally I have no desire for a sexual relationship whatsoever, I find the thought of participating in sex to be deeply uncomfortable.
I have thought of trying to pursue a romantic relationship, but over the years that has seemed to be a fleeting wish more than a concrete goal.
Most of my interactions with the opposite sex is with family or in a purely professional context.
I don't think I have ever said more than 10 words to a girl who wasn't obligated to talk to me because of a job and even then I doubt I hit double digits.

>>18479883
>I always thought it was a meme but lm coming to the realization that its more a meme to get laid a lot than it is to never get laid.

What do you mean by that?

>>18479883
I don't think it's a meme to have sex at all. I don't even care if I have multiple partners during the course of my life anymore, I would like to try to be supportive enough of someone so they would like to stay with me and we could live together and help each other.
>>18479894
I mean I'm pretty sure I can be honest about what lead to me being this way. Only son, very protected and spoiled by parents. Good friends, but never talked about them with girls early on because we just didn't do that for some reason. Never had a job until 25 so never had to have much responsibility. Live alone now in my own place and am employed but just my past looms over me like I just don't know what to do or feel in this regard. Was also mildy molested by some faggot little kid when I was like 5 or 6 who was supposed to be my friend at the time.

>>18479894
You don't need to take a good hard look. He doesn't make enough money, it's that simple. That is why he's a virgin.

If he made decent income there would have already been girls going after him, even if he's ugly.

>>18479902
You have low testosterone.

No sex drive means something is seriously wrong with you, I guarantee you have low enough testosterone levels that you would get prescribed anabolic steroids.

>>18479845
>The truth is people in our situation are very unlikely to find any type of relationship and those odds decrease with age.
Utter bullshit. Just think about the female equivalent to your situation. It's the same with them, they're desperate for guys like you who are not already married or divorced and father to children with another women.

>>18479909
So what's stopping you pursuing girls now that you have your shit together? This is what I'm talking about: you're not being completely honest at all, and you're not making any effort to overcome it.

>>18479912
We aren't talking about guys who are going through a rough patch and have been single for a while or who haven't managed to find a stable relationship
We are talking about people who lack the basic social skills and extended social network needed to even begin to start a relationship

>>18479918
Well I mean it's not a career job even though I suppose it could become one and I'm still supported by my parents to a degree.
Am I making an effort? No I'm not. But I don't feel right about these kinds of things, I don't know what's ok and what isn't to do because it literally is not in my wheelhouse of experience at all. On top of that I don't ever feel a charge to pursue a woman now but I want to be able to. It's like I was working on a chemical level more properly when I was younger but was too afraid. Now I'm older and know at least a bit of shit, but I've lost my feeling and drive.

Maybe this helps to answer your question OP.
https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/the-cardinal-rule-of-relationships/

>>18479920
>We are talking about people who lack the basic social skills and extended social network needed to even begin to start a relationship
You know there ARE women like that. My sister is the same and that's a shame. She's 33 now she's extremely pretty (A LOT OF GUYS tried to ask her out) and she's getting older and still not able to get herself a man. (And no she isn't lesbian, that is not a problem in our family were pretty open about that. She likes built actors and soccer player way too much for that)

>>18479933
>https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/the-cardinal-rule-of-relationships/
I don't think things have to work this way as stringently as the person who wrote this did.

>>18479943
So there are, but apparently she doesn't care about guys who don't at least resemble built actors and soccer players.

>>18479791
The answer is easy.

You dont have any online dating priofile.
You dont go to social events.
You dont talk to girls.
You dont ask girls on dates.
You dont want gf.

If you tried, you would have had sex / gf already.

The rare old virgin girl case is even more straightforward: fat ugly or simply didnt want bf.

If you put at least as much effort used to making this thread into dating, you would be closer to obaining your first gf.

But you chose to shitpost instead. You dont want gf. The only real question remains:
>why are you here shitposting about gf when in reality you dont want one?

>>18479911
>You have low testosterone.
No. I have a history of psychological problems ranging from debilitating anxiety to clinical depression as well as an aversion to all forms of physical contact in general.
It took be two years of therapy to be able to shake hands without feeling like maggots were crawling underneath my skin for an hour afterword, being within arms reach of a person makes me physically uncomfortable the thought of being inside of another person makes me ill if I really sit and think about it for more than 10 seconds

>>18479951
>but apparently she doesn't care about guys who don't at least resemble built actors and soccer players.
She does. She once had something that resembled a relationship (omg it really was like two 12 years olds trying to date. It was almost unbearable to watch..........) with a horribly ugly guy who was a gambling piece of shit and broke her heart

>>18479996
>the thought of being inside of another person makes me ill if I really sit and think about it for more than 10 seconds
Have you been raped by a woman or something like that when you were younger? It sounds awfully much like that..... :(

>>18480020
No
I had a very lovely and perfectly average childhood with no real emotional stressers that could have triggered this
My therapist and I were mostly convinced that my problem was primarily neurological
Unfortunately I have very little money and no insurance to seek help for this problem and the therapist I was seeing at a sort of free clinic has since left the state and left me to my own devices
My attempts at acquiring money and/or insurance have all been met with failure or have been non starters due to my previously stated issues
I have resigned myself to waiting for death and the future of homeless vagrancy that I am sure waits me

I have no advice to give as I am but a 26 year old version of OP. Everything you've posted can describe me (sans visit to a therapist, I have money/insurance).

I feel with you. My situation seems a bit more validated I suppose. I want to be the kind of guy that wants to pursue a relationship.

>>18479976
Maybe it's true, but I honestly am not sure about that. Either that or I can't tell.

>>18480007
Well that guy truly sounds like a piece of shit I must say.

>>18480050
>not sure
Stop lying to yourself. You are comfortable not trying to get into girls panties. Too much effort, too much risk and fapping to waifu is better anyway.

You have 0 reason to pursue girls. Either stop shitposting about it or do something.
>dying alone is also valid option

>>18479845
you are an idiot
it gets easier as ppl get older, they become desperate
ever heard of the excuse
>i didnt want to be alone

stupid little shit, grow up

>>18480085
>they become desperate
>>i didnt want to be alone
>wanting to be with someone who clearly settled for you
m8

adv is full on underaged mode now

its entirely possible
takes 2 things
1, go where you can meet ppl
2, change something on yourself

right now you are on the feel sorry for yourself train, thats no attractive and detrimental to your advancement
you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and do things you wanted to do, heck whatever, JUST BE ACTIVE

beg for a girl, start a sport and fail at it, switch jobs, start knitting, shave your head, whatever just FUCKING BE ACTIVE and live like a man, not as a fucking drone

>>18480095
what m8 you stupid little shit? any idea how many ppl do that? ofcourse youll be like OHNO MUH PRIDE IM YOUNG AND I HAVE STANDARDS

but youll be begging your fat 45y old wife in 30years to not leave because nobody will be able to wash your pants, dumb shitter

>>18480053
>Well that guy truly sounds like a piece of shit I must say.
Yup. The worst part was that he of course lent money from her (800€) which he never gave back. And she was so ashamed to tell me, her little sis about this. And I had to calm her down and tell her that it's just human to make mistakes and I'm her sis and there really is no need to be ashamed....

>>18480102
Pretty rude, anon. I'm just implying that purposely dating/marrying someone who doesn't even really like you is a bad thing. Why would you recommend it?