How to get over someone who won't tell you what's wrong?

As someone who's had this done to me and who has also done it to other people... I don't know.
I would say it's okay if you move on and forget about them, it wouldn't make you a bad friend. I mean they are the ones who are actively killing your friendship, by not telling you what's wrong, right?

>>18479306
Yeah, but what if they are telling the truth and it's not just vague bullshit? then i look like a weird obsessive person.

>>18479301

You let it go.

Life comes with no guarantee of closure. Sometimes things go wrong and you'll never know why. If you get into the habit of not being able to get over things unless the end of it makes sense to you you're going to be doing a lot of pointless agonizing.