I'm about to have sex for the first time with a girl.

The vagina is a lot lower than you think it is.

Rub and lick her clit.
Finger inwards and upwards, her g-spot should be in that area.

Jack off a few hours before you do it, you'll last really long.

Play some Depeche mode.

>>18478636
This
Also have a wank beforehand

>>18478640
>>18478642
Fuck. Wank is not an option.

>>18478650

Then just go for round two if you cum too early. You got this.
Get drunk if you can. It can be fucking impossible to cum when drunk.

Don't be surprised if you cum as soon as you penetrate or don't cum at all.
I was fortunately the latter which is probably the best of the two options because then you make her insecure because she thinks she can't get you off.
In reality, I just have a numb dick from using a deathgrip

Just chill. Most people embarrass themselves regularly during sex, not just the first time. It's a tricky procedure and it's differebt with every person so you never really get a whole lot better at it and that's ok.
Just relax and try to enjoy yourself.

>>18478747

That happened to me.
But I love my death grip.

>>18478635
As someone that was in this situation literally 2 days ago:

>Foreplay is longer than you think
>You'll either cum instantly or won't cum, I didn't
>Practice putting on a condom
>When fingering curl your fingers up, you'll notice from her reaction when you hit the g-spot
>The more foreplay, the easier it'll be to stick your dick in/find the vagina

>>18478854
Oh I forgot a big one, and I know it's repeated all the time:

It's not as big a deal as people make it out to be