How come does being in love have ability to change the thinking

>>18478467

it doesn't really. we are constantly growing and changing nad being influenced by others, and because we want to win the love of others we compromise on our existing morals in order to obtain that love. even in small ways.

on 4chan if oyu use an emoticon like this:
:D

you will be mocked. you don't see it often. but if you're in a thread where a nattractive girl posts a pic suddenly all the guys responding will use those instead of reaction images in order to seem more endearing. human psychology.

the truth is a woman only makes you a 'better man' if you're still better when shes no longer there. otherwise she just made you a fraud, someone pretending to change his thinking simply to appease someone to get what he wants.

>>18478479
>>18478479
What if you're being clearly changed into a worse person? I've never drank alcohol, never smoked pot etc.. All I did was to be in closer contact with her, and I dont regret, I just feel bad when I see who have I become. Is love worth the "sin"?

>>18478502

same deal but in reverse. you are compromising on your morals and who you are to get the affection of someone else, still becoming a fraud just to please someone who doesn't actually like you as you are naturally.

in my opinion no, mostly because she cant really love you if its an act.

>>18478510
I wouldn't really say she doesn't like meas I am naturally. We still chat several hours and have many things in common, music for example. My attitude to drugs is the only thing that differentiates us. I am willing to do the fraud for one night becuase of her. I just fear I'll start liking it, not only because of her, but because I got tainted.

>>18478529

well yeah, most drugs are addictive.

regardless its not healthy behavior.