Hey guys, KV age 24 here. I really want to get a GF, so I've started working out, lost some weight, started reading books etc. etc., you know- selfimproovment stuff. There are three things however that are really dragging me down in my quest:
First-getting fit is a work in progress, but even if I get fit, I'll still look pretty mediocre- I'm not a pretty face.
Second-I don't know any woman in my life that I would like to ask out. Uni was a sausage fest, work is a sausage fest, as you may have guessed I'm not a very popular person and I hate going to clubs (In our country night clubs are gathering points for rich guys and gold diggers)
Third- the mere fact that I haven't seen any pussy "from first person" cripples my character when it comes to women- the anxiety is strong with me. Whenever I even think of approaching a girl I get very nervous. Plus I can't talk about sex openly, because I have no experience.
The thing is, that I see a ton of attractive women every day and I really want to approach some of them, but is it worth it? How do you guys think- is there any point at all to go to a complete stranger, the only think you have in common with is that you share the same subway train and try to generate a relationship out of thin air, or is the risk of becoming known as an insane creep too big.(Pls note that many of these girls work in the same building I do, so they won't just vanish after a failed attempt).
Or are there any other socially acceptable ways to get into a conversation with a girl.
PS: Don't recommend Tinder-I've tried it for six months- it's shit if you don't have a face like Brat Pitt.