>be 20
>find 19 y/o qt on tinder
>start talking a lot
>things gets intimate and sexual through phone/snap/facetime
>we both agree on our intentions of looking for a relationship and wait til we can meet when our schedules are better (she lives 30 mi. out)
>she admits she had a lot of partners (m & f) in HS, but none recently, I don't care
>I tell her used to talk to a lot of girls but now I only hang with 2
>She gets all weirded out and becomes a bit distant
>tfw she's probably implying when I mean "hang out" i mean hook up
>days of small talk pass by
>I tell her I'm getting coffee with a friend
>Don't think to tell her it's one of those girls so I'm pretty sure she implied I was hiding something
>Later that night, she tells me she "chilled" with a friend (literally used the fucking quotations)
>eventually find out she hooked up with another guy
>Didn't freak out but we've been distant
So I'm over here thinking this is a legit pass. And that she made implications about me hanging out with female friends which ended up in her hooking up with a friend and throwing it in my face. Need some reassurance. I wouldn't be bothered if there wasn't so much implied monogamy and this points to something that was done in retaliation.
TL;DR girl i liked slept with friend after I told her i still talk and hang with some girls. It sounds like she did it to get back at me. Should I pass on her?
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Just ask her the question and tell her you concerns. You can only win from this.
If it was to get back at you, she's trash. Even if she doesn't come clean verbally, you should be able to tell by how she acts.
If it wasn't to get back at yoy then you can decide what you want to do from there.
Coming right out and asking her like an adult will make you look like more of a man in her eyes regardless so just do it.