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Is my dick broken?
I finally lost my virginity on Thursday, and the whole time I didn't really feel much. She did cum though because I ate her out.
Today we had sex again but neither of us finished because she was preoccupied with leaving to see her mom. She seemed okay with it. Again I didn't feel anything, and though she was very wet, my dick was dry pretty much the whole time, to the point where it hurt to pull my foreskin back over the head.
Now that she left I'm not even in the mood to jack off and porn doesn't interest me. I can't even get hard to it, and I tried jacking off a few minutes ago but I didn't even feel anything. So do I just naturally have good stamina? Going off her moans and movements she was getting close but she was worried about leaving. Has anyone experienced anything like this? I'm scared I have ED or something. Help, I'm only 20.
Also she's getting on birth control like next week so I REALLY want a functioning penis again for obvious reasons.
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Stop fapping bruv, your dick is used to your hand now, so let it be for a week and it'll get more sensitive.
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>>18475770
I thought so too, but that doesn't explain why I can't get hard to porn anymore, and I couldn't muster a boner even when I was trying to jack off earlier.
I'm definitely going to stop watching it anyways though.
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If you take antidepressants, there are particular ones (namely SSRIs) that are known to cause sexual problems like weak erections, lack of drive, and/or inability to orgasm. If this is likely the case, talk to your psychiatrist about changing the medication.
Otherwise, it's probably inexperience, nervousness, or overdoing masturbation/porn.
Masturbation and porn are alright in moderation but can cause desensitization if overdone. Masturbation because your grip gets too tight and then actual sex is too gentle. Porn because it's sexual stimulus concentrate and real sex doesn't have the same strong visuals. The cure for both of these is to either go off for a while or deliberately work to tone it down until the gentle stuff works again.
For inexperience or nervousness, just give it time and try to relax. The more you stress out about it, the more you're gonna screw yourself over. Your dick is fine, so don't worry about it.
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>>18475704
It was probably just nerves. My first time I didn't feel shit. It took 3 hours for me to give up. After doing a few other times with my girlfriend and the stress of preforming properly eased, I started actually enjoying it. I would have times I'd finish in 5 minutes lol.
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