Me and my girlfriend are in a weird spot. We have just been doing

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Me and my girlfriend are in a weird spot. We have just been doing long distance the past month or so (she had to go away for a bit for an internship) and now that she's about to get back we are being honest about what we want from sex. It turns out we both really have this manic fetish for breeding (that is, ultra risky sex for making babies).

We're both 21. I'm a recent college grad, she's in college for another year or two and then is going to grad school. So while I'm unable to have a baby right now, her having one would be devastating since her parents are already really offended that she has sex at all -- a baby before getting through grad school is enough for them to disown her, I think.

And yet we are talking constantly about how we want to have babies together. She's taking BC now, but I'm still slightly paranoid about the idea of an actual kid. (She's ok with abortion, but still. I really dislike the idea of abortion)

How do I communicate with her about continued BC without offending her for not trusting her? I do trust her a lot, but I have a history of extreme paranoia entirely unrelated to this relationship.