So I have a friend who is pretty much the most important person in my life right now (she doesn't know this) and recently we where talking and she told me she did pot a little while ago. Now logically I know this is not a big deal but I have issues with it. It was part of why my parents got divorced and I have had friends who I watched go from never having done it to being worthless stoners who do nothing but sit around smoke it every day and talk about it constantly.
At first this made me kinda depressed and constantly gnawed at my thoughts but after a couple days I thought I was over it but then I was watching tv a couple hours ago and the characters took out a bong and started smoking and that fucked my shit up.
Now I am having some kind of breakdown with moodswings between deep sadness and anger. Literally crying into a pillow one minute and then screaming and punching my leg over and over again the next minute. I don't know. I guess I am scared this shit is going to take her from me or something.
I know this is my problem and not hers but what do I do?
Don't knock it till you try it for yourself.
>>18470899
>dont condemn something that will fuck you up somehow until you fuck yourself up with such thing
degenerate kys
>>18470894
>but what do I do?
I see it's time for this again...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M
>>18470894
>Now I am having some kind of breakdown with moodswings between deep sadness and anger. Literally crying into a pillow one minute and then screaming and punching my leg over and over again the next minute.
I suggest that you start smoking pot. It will mellow you out.
Where I live, weed is sold over the counter and is as normal a part of life as people who drink alcohol. Both are bad in excess but there are plenty of people who have healthy, functioning lives who smoke weed in moderation.
This being said, it's a personal matter which only your friend can decide on how to deal with. If it is such a concern for you, then you must sit down with her and explain at length how you feel about the matter. Before doing so, I encourage you to do your own research about the matter. I can understand your bias about the matter given that you blame the substance for your parents divorce - my only advice at the end of the day is to have a conversation about it with your friend, and at the end of it all realize that she is the one who has final say over what she does. When talking to her, try to be open and receptive to her decisions rather than bash them and put up a wall. This doesn't mean you have to approve or concede your point, I just don't personally think this matter is worth causing a rift in your friendship over.
Although I am somewhat unsure wether you really should try it, like other's have suggested. It's not like the substance itself, but rather your rough background and moral stance towards it might stir up some conflicts within.
But yea, just talk to your friend. Weed won't take her from you, but rather any barriers you two have between each other.
>pic unrelated but felt like posting because why not
You're just blaming weed for your problems with your family. Grow up.
>>18470894
chill out and toke up