21 y.o. male. Why the do guys that I talk to keep calling me buddy? I don't understand it. I feel like I should be insulted! I'm definitely a more laid back and happy person than most but for the past few days I'll either bump intonguys from school that I haven't seen in a while or deal with a male cashier and they all call me buddy over and over again. What the fuck? Do they want to pinch my cheeks or do they look down on me? Both? I'm an adult sometimes I want to say just stop fucking calling me buddy please! What do?
>inb4 manlet
I'm 5'9".. that's average height and one guy who called me buddy was shorter than me. I just want to know if this seems endearing or patronizing to you
I get called buddy, I just call it to them right back.
>>18470129
I like you
Start calling them "bub"
Are people seriously triggered from being called buddy?
Maybe it's a southern thing but where I'm at buddy is not disparaging or meant for kids like some kind of updated1950's dad "heya sport!". It's just friendly. Like dude or man.
>>18470110
Say, "I'm not your buddy pal" in a joking way. They will probably stop. Or say, haha you called me buddy, that's swell.
If none of that works try "I once knew a guy that called everyone buddy, he died of aids from all the gay sex he was having" *stare at them intensely while saying this.
>>18470110
Honestly call my friends buddy all the time. Greeted an acquaintance with "whats up buddy" once and it felt weird. It seems a little patronizing to call someone that you aren't friends with buddy.
>>18470203
Exactly. I call ppl buddy all the time. My mom Silver frown on me for doing this when I address someone older than me as buddy. However he always addressed me as buddy so i dont see the problem.
>>18470203
>>18470214
These. My friends and I call each other buddy all the time. I wouldn't let a stranger call me that, however